Image and Etiquette

Pontification From The Mount

There are several non-negotiable rules for presenters. Probably the most important two are:

1. Have something of value to say. If not, say nothing.

2. Be prepared.

The presenter last night broke both of those rules and a multitude of others that we won’t get into at this time.

Executive Presence: It’s hard to define it but you know it when you see it!

Executive presence. It’s hard to define it but you know it when you see it in someone. Their eye contact is strong but not over-bearing. They are confident but not arrogant. They are focused on you, undistracted by the melee around them. They listen extraordinarily well and are in no hurry to speak out their own agenda. They are calm, even under pressure. Indeed, Ernest Hemmingway said it best: “The definition of guts is grace under pressure.”

Image Consultant Toronto: The Backstory

When a new colleague recently asked about my early years as an image consultant, it got me thinking …

Corporate Menu Planning Primer

These are the individuals who organize and plan every function from conventions to luncheons and although the uninitiated may think this profession is glamour incarnate, the reality is very different. Military precision, troubleshooting par excellence and enough detail to drive an actuary crazy all define the professional Event Planner’s day.

During the training program, I gave a menu-planning workshop. Here’s a behind the scenes look at what we covered.

Christine’s triumph: rebuilding a positive self-image

I have always known that form is all when it comes to these core workouts but never realized that sit-ups are absolutely off-limits for some people, until I read Unbreakable: A woman’s triumph over osteoporosis, by Christine Thomas. I met Christine five years ago when she booked an image consultation. But she had embarked on her journey in 2001 as a 42-year old new mom who had just been diagnosed with osteoporosis. After fracturing her spine in five places, even the simple act of lifting her newborn daughter was too much for her fragile and compromised skeletal system.

A new hue for the New Year

World-renowned colour authority Pantone Inc. has just declared Honeysuckle Pink colour of the year for 2011. Described as “a brave new colour for a brave new world,” watch for this vibrant, blushing pink to make its mark on everything from fashion and makeup to interior design.

Dressing up, not down: Clothing does send a message

Clothing does send a message. But there’s an enormous side benefit to a well-groomed appearance and general sense of “dressing up” — it gives you a lift. Big time. One of the greatest advocates of this philosophy is my friend Bill Shaddy. As a former International HR Director at Pepsi, Bill knows “the right stuff” when it comes to stocking his closet. These days, however, things are a little more complicated. ill, I should explain, has been living with MS for the last 18 years and snaps are just easier than wrangling with a button and bitty hole. Rain or shine, Bill dresses up. His only concession is a stylish cane by his side.

Working with positive people is a blessing

Working with positive people is, indeed,
a blessing; they bring joy and brighten the day. It’s like a gift of sunshine.

Perfect packing for business and pleasure

When it comes to air travel, anything more than a carry-on is counter productive. It’s not just the lost-luggage-factor that has most women wheeling, not carrying, a single bag onboard. The hassle, the time lost, and often our travel partners, with little or no patience for hanging around carousels, have conditioned even the most passionate [...]

Size doesn’t really matter

In fitting rooms across the planet, “Does it make me look fat?” — is without a doubt the pivotal issue that makes or breaks a clothing sale. Ultimately, it’s a rhetorical question because the woman doing the trying-on will make the call herself. If she has even the slightest uncertainty that the garment doesn’t shave [...]