There’s no doubt about it, Father’s Day is a triumph of commercialization. In fact, back in the 1930’s, it was a New York City association of men’s retailers that successfully lobbied to legitimatize the holiday. Many would credit this group with turning it into the tie-fest we know today.  The bottom line is, Father’s Day falls on a Sunday, and it’s summertime. Who needs any more excuses to celebrate?

Maybe your style is to toast dad with a big-deal brunch or barbeque.  Perhaps it’s a long distance phone call to a father far away, or sometimes a simple e-mail will suffice. Or maybe you’re not quite sure of the protocol when Dimitri, or Tom, or “Dad” – isn’t really your father.

There are no hard and fast rules.  Here are some guidelines to ensure every dad, daughter, son – and mom – has a great day.

• Parents divorced and your mom remarried
  Clearly, your father comes first, but by definition, your mom’s husband is your stepfather.  If you have a strong bond with him, or even a good solid relationship, consider a card.  He’ll be thrilled and your mom will be over the moon.  A card sends a strong message of approval – you’ll make mom’s day, too.
• Your widowed mom remarried
  Circumstance dictates decorum: Great guy, truly enjoy his company, treats you like his own kid?  This calls for a personalized card, perhaps a gift, or even an invitation to your backyard barbeque. Here is a day to truly show your appreciation.
• Your mom has a “partner”
  If no civil or religious marriage ceremony took place, her partner is not your stepfather.  Courtesy and kindness rule; ultimately, it’s up to you.
• Father figures
  Could be your grandfather, godfather, or father-in-law who come to mind on this special Sunday.  Let him know – a call, a card or a coffee, shared.  As the saying goes: presence counts more than presents.

With all this chatter about barbeques, check out these delicious recipes:

Father’s Day Menu

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