Image and Etiquette

Is the Customer Always Right?

When department store tycoon Gordon Selfridge opened his namesake store in London, over 100 years ago, his flair for marketing was apparent from the moment the front doors opened. As one of many innovations, he located the perfumery, or scent department as it was called then, adjacent to the main entrance to mask the smell [...]

Exemplary Executive Conduct — the Emblem of Every Successful Organization

I am a real advocate of looking up the ladder to role models, for cues and guidelines, so I was truly exasperated to hear the following story: A young colleague of mine, let’s call her Mandy, returned from a recent meeting so agitated, not even an iced cappuccino (with whipped cream!) would calm her down. Mandy [...]

Decline in Urban Civility

Picture a weather-perfect long weekend marking the unofficial start of summer and you’d have Toronto’s Victoria Day holiday.  My husband and I decided to seize the moment and take advantage of the idyllic conditions with a long walk — far from the pervasive concrete of our urban neighbourhood. We headed for our local public transit [...]

Self image and looking beyond a disability

Image has a profound impact on both professional and personal life. When people are comfortable with the way they look, they are most likely happy, relaxed and self-assured. They even communicate more effectively. With this confidence comes the ability to set, manage and achieve personal goals. I was reminded of the importance of this much [...]

New Wave of Public Speaking

My journey as a public speaker may soon take to the high seas — literally and figuratively.  Rarely does a week pass that I’m not engaged to speak.  Venues vary in size and scope but probably my largest audience was 19,000 plus, at the Ottawa Senators’ home game when I introduced Sandrine’s Gift of Life [...]

11 Tips for Asking Questions at Meetings and Conferences

Public speaking is fundamental to my profession. Every week, without fail, I’m in front of an audience. Size and location vary — from a dozen people in a corporate boardroom to several hundred at a convention centre. Regardless of the size or scope or topic, I generally make sure there’s time provided for questions from [...]

Why I Love Blogging!

A great way to educate, inform and receive invaluable feedback As most of you know, when it comes to blogging, I fall into the neophyte category.  Yes, I’m a social media enthusiast — but the idea of starting a blog was somewhat challenging.  The interaction between the writer and the reader demands a greater sense [...]

Great Expectations

As Consumers, Our Expectations Are Extremely High Do you offer the quality of service you gauge others by?  Do you demand the same high standards of yourself — that you expect from other business professionals — when you’re working with clients? As an image and etiquette consultant, I am very conscious of how I present [...]

I am so sorry!

A Few Words on Apologies Last fall, on a walking tour of downtown Toronto with my son, a particularly attractive building caught my attention.  I was so busy admiring its architecture that I didn’t see the bench in my path.  Boom!  I took a tumble worthy of a Hollywood stuntwoman. It was a spectacular fall [...]

Forbidden Words – Cursing and Swearing

Earlier this month, Global News asked me to appear on the 6 o’clock news to comment on the social taboo of foul language or cursing and swearing.  I was being asked to comment on the etiquette of cursing–an oxymoron if ever I heard one!  (Swearing – meaning solemn promise – is another subject for another [...]